One Full Year

One year ago today I made the decision to quit drinking.
It was a Saturday and I finally faced the truth of the matter.
Quit or die.
No other choice really.
I drank a 66 oz and half of a 28 oz bottle of Rye throughout the weekend and week before July 18/20.
That is a whole helluv a lot of alcohol going into my body and my liver processing it.
I was embarrassed.
I was sickened.
I had had enough.
I have not told many people about the fact that I have quit drinking.
Lately I have become a little more forthcoming.
One of my regular customers works part-time at the LC.
Did not know as he started there after I quit drinking.
But I did tell him that that was why I did not know…..because I no longer went in there.
Another customer wanted to take me for a beer and when I said that I did not drink he asked why.
I could have said nothing and switched the subject but I was honest with him.
And he said: Good for you for knowing that you had to quit.
To celebrate my year’s sobriety I ordered a cake from work.
Or rather I picked out my Jeanne’s Cake. (Pronounced Genie)
Jeanne cakes are either you love them or you hate them.
No middle ground.
Made at a bakery in Winnipeg, my first taste of one came when I was just six weeks old at my Christening.
My Amma had brought one and I got to taste the frosting.
Every year on my birthday until I started to have parties I had a Jeanne’s cake.
I picked out a chocolate with chocolate frosting and took it to the girls in the Bakery.
I worked until 9 p.m. last night and sent J into the bakery to get my cake.
I couldn’t go in there while working as it would have melted and after work it would look funny.
When she came out with it she was smiling and said oh this is exciting!
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Today I posted a pic of the cake to both my Insta and Facebook accounts.
I am doing the social media equivalent to standing on the rooftop and screaming my news to the world.
And with each person’s congratulations; with each I am so proud of you tears fill my eyes.
With each tear that drops the shackles that alcohol helped to bind me in are fully corroded and falling at my feet.
My inner strength amazes me.
My desire to be a better person; a more present person amazes me.
When you are no longer selfish; when you no longer have the veneer of self deception that an addiction to alcohol gives you; when finally you are striped bare of all your outer trappings and look truthfully at your soul; that is when true freedom begins.
©July 18/21
Pictures is my own
First time in 6 months that I was able to visit my wonderful hairdresser on Friday.
I love when she straightens my hair. 🙂

I Have A Problem

I have always known that I have a book problem.
I must have books on hand at all times for me to read.
Wellllllllllllll…..
I have a Kindle.
Recently I went on a bit of a buying spree from my Wish List on Amazon.
Now when so many of them were $0.99 I may or may not have gone overboard in my purchasing.
I have had a lag issue with my Kindle and recently when having a chat with Amazon CS regarding an issue with my Firestick I mentioned it wanting to know if it was an issue issue or just me.
They could not figure out anything being wrong and suggested that I do a hard reboot.
Dumbass that I am I did.
I have spent the last week redownloading all my collections and books in those collections.
Finally finished today.
And realized that I did not see any of the book I had purchased.
Took me a bit (I have issues with the way they sort things but c’est la vie) but I found the books.
I am still downloading them as I sit here and write this.
And I also figured out how many books I have to download.
168.
Yes that is right 168 books to download to my Kindle.
I have had to stop and restart my Kindle a couple of times.
I also know how many unread books I have on there: 1446.
What can I say?
It is not a bad addiction to have.
©April 20/21
Picture via Pinterest