I have always been baffled by a parent’s need to go to battle for their adult children.
Now don’t get me wrong there are times and places where yes a parent does need to do battle for their adult child(ren) but for the vast majority of us (I really like that phrase vast majority I have used it more than a few times) we tend to take responsibility and do our own battles. I don’t know about you but this is how I have learned and grown, continue to grow.
I have discovered a new pet peeve. One that irks the living hell out of me.
Jumping to conclusions.
Look, if you are not a part of the conversation keep your nose out of it. Do not assume you know all the facts and decide on a course of action that is contrary to how say someone else may react. Make blatant and unfounded accusations and people start to ‘go see ya, wouldn’t want to be ya.’ Too much bullshit in your life and coming from your mouth.
My advice and it is not often that I give it because well you do not learn from advice…..you learn from experience…..is as follows:
Stay in your own lane. Keep your nose and mouth out of other people’s business. That pretty little nose of yours might then stay pointing in the right direction as opposed to the left or the right, all depending on what direction the hook comes from.